Wednesday, March 31, 2021

SNL RAP on the COVID Vaccine

 




I have some fun links to share with you.  The first is an SNL Rap on getting the COVID Vaccine.  Here is the link.


Remember that father daughter dancing duo who I blogged about last year when COVID started.  Here is their  one year anniversary dance.  Still fun!

Friday, March 26, 2021

Would Like to Meet


An editor needs to get her client to finish his screen play.  He is being extremely uncooperative because he has agreed to write a Rom-Com and doesn't want to do it.  To help his creative juices start to flow, they agree that she would go out on dates and write about her experiences.  The most important part to him is the "meet cute".

I think everyone should have at least one meet cute in their lifetime. Admittedly, I didn't even know what a meet cute was until I watched The Holiday with Kate Winslet and Cameron Diaz. If you haven't seen this holiday movie consider putting it on your movie watch list.  I can't believe I am going to say it but it is better than a Hallmark Holiday movie (gasp I feel like a trader).

So what is a meet cute.  According to Wikipedia the all knowing source of information found online, a meet cute is a scene in a tv show or film where two people who are destined for couple hood meet for the first time.  There is usually humor or a cute circumstance involved.

In The Holiday, Kate Winslet's Character Iris suffers a devastating blow when her boyfriend announces his marriage to someone else at her work Christmas party.  Iris  decides she needs a change of scenery so she does a house swap.  Her next door neighbor Arthur is a retired screen writer who introduces Iris to meet cute.  Here is how the meet cute goes.  A man and a woman who do not know each other both go to the pajama department in a retail store.  He says to the sales person "I just need the bottoms of a pair of pajamas".  She says to the same sales person, "I just need the top". Their eyes meet and there ladies and gentlemen is the meet cute.

I have a meet cute.  It was Thanksgiving weekend.  I went to New York for the holiday and was returning home by train.  I was reading the New York Times, one of my favorite newspapers at the time.  A man sat down next to me and said "Do you mind if I look at the sports section".  I looked at him and said, "Sure it is the only section I don't read"  and he said " It is my favorite section"  That was our meet cute and now we are married. I now glance over the sports section, after so many years I feel the need to be able to keep up with my part of the conversation.

So that is the meet cute.  Consider reading the book it's fun and everyone can use some fun in their lives.











Friday, February 19, 2021

Musical Chairs


Before the birth of Chucky Cheese and all the other venues for children's birthday parties, the birthday party was held at home.  We ate homemade food or pizza brought in from an actual pizzeria. I grew up in  New York where the pizza was fantastic, none of this card board crap served at Chucky cheese. and we played games with prizes for the winners.

The most popular games were scavenger hunts, pin the tail on the donkey and musical chairs.  All of them were fun but musical chairs took the most skill and strategy.

I can't assume that everyone knows how musical chairs is played, so I will briefly explain the game.  The game is all about elimination.  A number of chairs are set up in a row.  There are fewer chairs then players. Music is played and while it is playing participants walk around the chairs.  When the music is abruptly stopped, players must scramble to find an empty chair.  If you are not fortunate enough to land on an empty chair you are out and must watch from the sidelines.  So you must be a good listener and quick on your feet.

My fascination with book titles once again led me to this book. The book is about musicians who met at Julliard and formed a trio. Two of the musicians, the pianist and the cello player have anchored the group for many years.  The violin position has been replaced several times.  Having raised a violinist I have first hand knowledge of the very delicate balance and chemistry that exists between the musicians. It is very disruptive when a musician leaves and a new one joins.

The book begins with the trio once again replacing  their violinist.  The trio has been around for a long time in musical years and having had to replace their  violinist once again they have lost some of their mojo.  They are weary of the metaphoric shuffling of chairs and take a summer break.

While the break was meant as a period of rest before they went back on the road, certain events take place and the two original members of the trio start questioning whether the trio should continue.

Will, the pianist, who has lived in his New York apartment is told his rent will be going up. When he visits Bridget in Connecticut, he meets a woman who he is instantly attracted to.  Bridget, the cellist, anticipating a summer with her novelist boyfriend is disappointed when he breaks up with her over the phone.  In addition ,Bridget's father a world renowned orchestral conductor announces he is remarrying which totally throws her off. 

They are playing a game of musical chairs, with one chair missing and the both of them circling, waiting for the music to stop and then what.  What will be their next move?  Read more about this book.


Sunday, February 7, 2021

What's Up


 

Saturday, I woke up early so that I could get my food shopping done before the crowds hit the stores.  Snow was once again in the forecast so I knew the volume would be amped up.  As I was driving, a fire truck and ambulance passed.  

At first I thought nothing of it, why should I, fire trucks and ambulances are part of everyday life and I live pretty close to a hospital. However,  a police car came racing up the road with the flashers on and then another.  Again an everyday occurrence but when five more came racing up the road all I could think of was that there was some kind of shooting incident.  Honestly, I don't know why that came into my head.  Nothing usually happens where I live but when you see all these police cars moving at top speed you know that this is something out of the ordinary. It just goes with the times.  The pandemic has brought out the crazies in a lot of people.  The political atmosphere has brought out the crazies and then there are just those who are crazy.

Sadly, I was right.  The police were responding to two traffic accidents but when the driver was confronted he became violent.  Police fired.  He was shot.

I sit here shaking my head and saying what has happened.  Has this always been happening and we are more aware of it because of a twenty four hour news cycle, or has the world changed so much?


The bigger question is how can we fix it?  How can we make things safer? It has to be possible. I wish I knew.



Saturday, January 30, 2021

If Snow May Fall


 They are predicting a big one.  They meaning the meteorologists and big one translated means snowfall. Do I believe it?  I am deciding to go with yes so I have my Kindle locked and loaded.

One of the good things that has come from living with COVD, if you want to call it good, is that we are now use to being confined indoors.  Very little will change once the snow starts and after it is on the ground.  I usually work from home and my company never closes.  It is after all health care.

But like thousands of people, I woke up this morning and made my COVID grocery run.  Mask on, I entered the Giant and joined the many others who were stocking up as usual and those who were stocking up due to snow in the forecast. Since COVID started I do one big shopping as infrequently as possible.  I have been swamped at work so today was my only option.

I started early , but by the time I had been there for ten minutes the store was getting very crowded and social distancing was becoming very difficult.  Usually when I grocery shop,  I take the opportunity to get a lot of my steps in but, my fit bit told me I was behind so I decided to speed up my shopping and get out of the store.

Usually when a "snow storm" is expected I stock up on lots of goodies, including potato chips, ice cream and baking ingredients to make chocolate chip cookies.  

The baking of chocolate chip cookies is a leftover tradition from my college days.  When heavy snow was in the forecast, one of  my roommates or I would stop off to pick up the ingredients after class.  There is nothing like the smell and taste of chocolate chip cookies during a snowfall. 

 Back in the day I could eat several chocolate chip cookies because the college campus I attended was huge and to make it to class with 10 minutes between each class you practically jogged.  I  also had a loaded backpack. so my cardio and weights workout was covered. Let's just say 10,000 steps was an easy goal.

This grocery run my grocery basket contained no potato chips or ice cream.  Believe me I struggled to just walk away and  leave them on the shelf.  I bought healthy foods like salad fixings and chicken wings.  I am so boring. 

Once my grocery needs were met, I focused on my reading needs and loaded up my kindle.  Here are some of the books I downloaded.  









My back up plan if I can't read anymore is to  Knit my sweater or do a puzzle. 

So if Snow may fall, I am ready. Happy Snow Day!


Monday, January 25, 2021

Date night during the Time of COVID

 


Dining Out: A Blessing Or A Curse? | Maui Vang

Even though we are in the middle of this COVID pandemic, my husband and I try to still have a date night. I use the term date night very loosely because it really isn't our typical date night. It is more a break from me cooking dinner every night.

In the beginning of this whole mess, we tried to frequent some of our favorite restaurants, but they just didn't seem to have the carry out routine down.  On my husband's birthday we ordered from our favorite BBQ restaurant.  The ribs were hard and tasteless the sides dry.  For my birthday, we ordered from our favorite local Mexican restaurant.  I love this place and it is not part of a chain so the food is always great.  Not when we ordered to go it just didn't taste as good.

We tried a few more places but ultimately we decided to give up which actually broke my heart because we want to support local businesses but to spend $50 a pop for inedible food is just not worth it.  So we looked elsewhere and what we came up with is Chik-Ful-A.  They have their drive through strategy down to a science.  

Our date night now consists of placing a mobile order, driving 3 miles to our neighborhood Chik-Fil-A and getting in the drive through line.  Our meal is handed to us.  It is hot and fresh.  The order is correct and When we get it home the temperature of the food is pretty good.  We pour a glass of wine and we have a pretty decent meal.  The best part is that every time we go through this process it turns out the same.  The food is good. 

I found this article on foods American's like to take out.  Not surprisingly, chicken is on the list.

Just in case you are interested read this article America's 15 favorite foods for take out

Sunday, January 24, 2021

Smile during COVID

 




Looking back on the last year, I can honestly say I almost forgot how to smile. As I have mentioned in previous posts I work for a large health care organization with multiple hospitals, urgent care centers and pharmacies.

I work in IT so I am not directly working with patients but I do work with the front line workers who do.  We are not immune and several of my colleagues including team members have been down for the count with this crazy virus. I have also had family members who have contracted the virus.  In the beginning I was really doing great, but as the virus has dragged on I find it hard to lift my spirits. 

Please don't get me wrong, I am thankful for so many things.  It's just that at times it get to me.

I was looking at You tube videos, something I do to  relax and I found some of my favorite musical artists singing the song Smile so I thought I would share the link with you. 

Just tap on the word Smile.

I hope you enjoy the video as much as I did and maybe it might bring a smile (in a little bit of a sad way) to your face as it did to mine.  

Wednesday, January 6, 2021

Ready Knitter One

 




My Mom loved to knit.  The house could burn down around her but if she was involved in her knitting she would not have noticed.  We gave her many nicknames like Bella Abzug after the politician, but when she was knitting we called her Madame DeFarge.

For those of you unfamiliar with Charles Dickens Tale of Two Cities, Madam DeFarge was the character who was one of the leaders during the French revolution who would watch beheadings in the square while knitting.  I always remember that being totally bizarre but memorable. 

I am a big fan of Charles Dickens and I recommend that you read a book or two of his works.  Don't start with A Christmas Carol, that would be cheating. Try Great Expectations, Little Dorritt, Oliver Twist or Tale of Two Cities. 

My Mother was bound and determined to teach me how to knit. She showed me the knit and purl stitch and a made the obligatory scarf.  Once finished I put away my knitting needles and retired from knitting.

Years later, I married and my husband being in the military was transferred to Germany.  I was fortunate to get a job with American Express Travel Gmbh and met some really great people. One of my German Colleagues would come in new sweaters all the time.  It surprised me because buying clothes in Germany at the time was pretty pricey. Also her sweaters were so different than the ones in the stores.

I finally got up enough courage and asked her where she bought them.  She told me she knit them.  That sparked my interest especially when she said one of the patterns was relatively easy.  Her words not mine.  Of course the pattern was in German but I knew enough to understand it. 

The next day I went to Kaufhof where I discovered the beautiful selection of yarn and bought enough to make the sweater.  I brought it with me to my office.  She gave me a refresher course in casting on, watched me knit and purl a row and I was on my way.  She did comment that she had never seen anyone knit the way I did.  Apparently when my Mom taught her self that was the method she used and passed it on to me. 

It took me three months to make the sweater but it came out pretty darn good.  I started another one but got bored.  I am a Gemini so it takes a lot to keep me engaged. I packed up the sweater and it never was completed.

Because of COVID I have been looking for things to do inside.  I decided that as part of my New Year Resolution I would be more creative so I decided to start to knit again.  It is a basic sweater but it's a start.  

It has been so many years since I knit that first sweater that I completely forgot everything.  Thank goodness for You Tube.  I watched how to cast on, knit a row and purl a row.  Oh and yes the "correct" way of knitting is completely different form the Flo method. But for Flo, her method worked.

Everyone should be free to create as they see fit.  I will try to keep you updated on my progress. Above is when I first started.  The picture below is where I am now.






Monday, January 4, 2021

Cookie Season is Over


For me holiday cookie season begins the day after Halloween, pretty much when the Christmas music starts playing at the grocery store. I will not lie, when it comes to cookies I have absolutely no will power.  To make matters worse, a lot of my friends are great bakers.  Luckily I am not.

This year no one I know baked their usual batches nor did I. Did that stop me from gorging myself on cookies.  Absolutely not! The store bakeries and the Keebler Elves stepped up to the plate and filled in the gap.  That means our house was constantly filled with the smell of store baked goodies.  

On a normal year, I pace myself for a slow go but this year due to being stuck in the house almost 24/7 the pace picked up considerably.  When I had blood work done my results were absolutely scary. Damn COVID.  I blame this on you.

So this weekend I did a kitchen cleanse.  Any cookies and other crap got thrown out. Our kitchen is now a cookie free, junk free zone.  I feel like I accomplished something great.

While I did not make a New Year's resolution to not eat so many cookies, I think going forward I will definitely monitor my cookie intake. It is not realistic to think that I can stay away from cookies altogether but  I think I will set a quota of 4 or 5 cookies each week and adjust my daily calorie count to accommodate for it.  As I work the sugar out of my system perhaps I can go several days with no cookies at all.  Baby Steps.

Wish me luck!


Saturday, January 2, 2021

Goodbye - 2020

 


2020 was not a good year.  In fact, it probably will go down in my book of years as one of the worst. Sadly 2021 may not start out much better.  One of my family members has COVID, one of my colleagues has COVID and someone I have known for 20 years is in hospice.  I am grappling with what to do, what to say and how to deal with this whole situation.  I am sure I will eventually work it out.

Since it is the New Year and the expectation is to make New Year resolutions I really thought long and hard on what mine would be this year.

Instead of the two that are always on my list, go on a diet and do more exercise, I wanted to take a different approach. So here are my resolutions for 2021.

  • Eat less potato chips and junk food. I figure going on a diet has never worked so at the very least taking out these addictive and less healthy options can only be a good thing.

  • I need to just get up and move more.  Be more mindful of getting out of my chair.

  • Be more creative.  I work in IT.  That can make me a very boring person.  Sometimes I sit in front of my computer working and don't say a word for hours. So I want to be more creative.  I am not a crafter but I figure there are things I can do that will allow me to use a different side of my brain.  My Mom was a great knitter.  In her honor I am going to knit a sweater.  I found what looks like a relatively easy pattern so I am going to try it.  I thought if it came out ok, I might try it again with variations.  I don't want to get too ahead of myself so I will try the first one and see how it goes.
 
  • Each day I want to end my day by looking back and finding something up beat or satisfying from the day so I end it on a good note.

  • I will of course continue to read.  In fact, I have been reading many books that I have not shared with you.  But I will get you up to speed on my lists. I don't think I would ever sleep if I couldn't read before bed.


  • Lastly, I am going to count my blessings and try to stay upbeat.